While the wings are in the oven, make the sauce: In a small skillet over medium-high heat, heat the oil. Add the garlic and ginger and cook for 1 minute, just until fragrant. Add the coconut aminos, honey, rice vinegar, salt, pepper, and chili flakes, if using, and cook, stirring constantly, for another 1 to 2 minutes. Reduce the heat to low.